The fact is its the EA Servers and nothing else don't lag in any other game just fifa. Ea are happy to make money but not investing in the future as there are not enough servers to cope with the amount of traffic. I have had the same problem with fifa for years and never had issues with any other games. I have come to the end as its a waste of my time and effort 

And yes I have wired connection all the right ports are open and dmz